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Family Law

Parenting & Custody

Parenting time, decision-making and guardianship arrangements built around your children after separation.

Many people still say custody, and that is fine. The Family Law Act uses different words. It talks about guardianship, parenting responsibilities (decisions about things like school, health care and religion) and parenting time (the time a child spends in each parent’s care). The federal Divorce Act uses similar ideas: decision-making responsibility and parenting time.

The legal test is the same in every case: what is best for the child. Courts look at the child’s needs and stage of development, their relationships with each parent and other important people, their own views where they are able to express them, any history of family violence, and how well the parents can cooperate. There is no automatic 50/50 starting point, and no rule that favours mothers or fathers.

We help parents build arrangements that hold up in real life, with enough detail to prevent arguments over holidays, pick-up times and travel.

What we help with

  • Parenting plans and parenting agreements
  • Applications for parenting orders in Provincial Court or Supreme Court
  • Guardianship applications, including for grandparents and other relatives
  • Changing an existing order when circumstances change
  • Travel consent, passports and international travel disputes
  • Section 211 reports and other assessments of a child’s needs

How it usually works

  1. 01

    Understand the priorities

    We start with the children’s current routine, school and activities, any safety concerns, and what each parent can realistically manage.

  2. 02

    Try to agree

    Arrangements reached by agreement tend to last longer. Negotiation, mediation or a parenting coordinator can all help.

  3. 03

    Apply to court if needed

    Where there is no agreement, or a child’s safety is at risk, we apply for an order. Interim orders can put a temporary schedule in place while the case continues.

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Questions

Common questions about parenting & custody

At what age can a child choose which parent to live with?

There is no fixed age in BC. A child’s views are considered and carry more weight as the child matures, but the court still decides based on the child’s overall best interests.

Can I stop the other parent from seeing our child?

Not on your own, unless there is an immediate safety risk, and even then you should get legal advice the same day. Keeping a child from the other parent without good reason can badly damage your position. If you have genuine safety concerns, a court can restrict or supervise parenting time.

What is a section 211 report?

An assessment of a child’s needs and each parent’s circumstances, prepared by a qualified professional under section 211 of the Family Law Act. Courts often rely on these reports in disputed parenting cases.

Book a consultation

Tell us what has happened. We will tell you where you stand.

The first consultation is free, at our Surrey office. Evenings and Saturdays by appointment.

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