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Family Law

Separation Agreements

A written agreement that settles parenting, support, property and debt without a trial.

A separation agreement is a contract between two people who were married or living together that records how they will handle parenting, support, property and debt now that the relationship has ended. Most separations in British Columbia are resolved this way rather than by a judge.

It can be signed at any time after separation and needs no court application. Done properly it is binding, and the support and property terms can be filed with the court so they are enforceable in the same way as an order.

What makes an agreement hold is the process behind it: full financial disclosure on both sides, independent legal advice for each person, and no one signing under pressure. The Family Law Act lets a court set aside an agreement reached without those things, or one that is significantly unfair on property division. An agreement written on a kitchen table and signed the same evening is the kind that gets challenged years later.

What we help with

  • Drafting an agreement covering parenting time, support, property, debt and the family home
  • Reviewing an agreement prepared by your spouse’s lawyer before you sign anything
  • Independent legal advice and signing certificates
  • Negotiating the last few points where you are close to agreement but not there yet
  • Filing support terms with the court so they can be enforced
  • Changing or replacing an agreement after a change in income, parenting or health
  • Challenging an agreement signed without disclosure, advice or a real choice

How it usually works

  1. 01

    Map out what has to be decided

    Parenting time, support, the house, pensions, debts and anything time sensitive, such as a mortgage renewal or a benefit deadline.

  2. 02

    Exchange financial disclosure

    Both of you have a legal duty to disclose income, assets and debts. An agreement built on guesswork is the easiest kind to overturn.

  3. 03

    Negotiate the terms

    Most of the work happens here, by correspondence, at a four-way meeting or in mediation, with the law on each issue made clear before you decide.

  4. 04

    Sign it, then make it stick

    Each person signs with their own lawyer’s advice. We then file what needs filing and complete the title transfers, pension division and account changes the agreement calls for.

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Questions

Common questions about separation agreements

Can one lawyer write the agreement for both of us?

No. A lawyer can only act for one of you, because your interests are not the same. One of you can instruct a lawyer to draft it, and the other then takes it to their own lawyer for independent advice. That advice is also what makes the agreement much harder to challenge later.

Is a separation agreement as good as a court order?

For most purposes, yes, and it is usually faster and cheaper. Support and property terms can be filed in court and enforced. The one thing an agreement cannot do is end a marriage, so married spouses still need a divorce order at the end.

Can we change it later?

You can change anything by consent, in writing. Without consent, child support and parenting terms can be revisited whenever circumstances change materially, because those are decided on the child’s interests. Property terms are much harder to reopen, which is why the division is worth getting right the first time.

We already signed something. Is it valid?

Bring it in and we will tell you. Courts look at whether there was disclosure, whether each person understood what they were giving up, and whether the result is significantly unfair. Some homemade agreements hold up, and some do not.

Book a consultation

Tell us what has happened. We will tell you where you stand.

The first consultation is free, at our Surrey office. Evenings and Saturdays by appointment.

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