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Why does preparation help?
A first meeting is short. The more of it that goes to your actual situation, rather than to piecing together basic facts, the more useful the advice will be.
What documents should I bring?
Notices of assessment or tax returns for the past three years; recent pay stubs or business financial statements; statements for bank accounts, investments, RRSPs and pensions; mortgage statements and property assessments; a list of debts; any marriage or cohabitation agreement; and any court documents you have received.
What if I cannot get the financial records?
That is common, especially where one spouse handled the money. Bring what you can. Your spouse has a legal duty to disclose, and there are ways to obtain what is missing.
What should I write down beforehand?
A short timeline: when you began living together, married, had children and separated. Add the children’s current schedule, any safety concerns, and any urgent dates such as a court appearance or a proposed move.
What will I know by the end of the meeting?
You should leave knowing the main legal issues, the realistic range of outcomes, the ways the matter could be resolved and what the next steps would involve. You are under no obligation to hire the firm.
Is the meeting confidential?
Yes. Before the meeting we run a conflict check using the names of the people involved, to confirm we have never acted for the other side. What you tell a lawyer for the purpose of getting legal advice is privileged.
This guide is general information about the law in British Columbia. It is not legal advice, the law can change, and how it applies depends on your circumstances. The first consultation is free, so ask.